You might feel odd when you see this title. What does getting your Ex back have to do with letting him go? Well, I said let him “Go” not let him go.
One of the causes that lead relationship to a break up is the SPACE. Many couples have claimed that after they are a relationship, the first thing they don’t like after the emotional period is they feel like they are lack of their own space.
They feel like they are tie down by an invisible “leash”. Especially men are more likely to feel in this way. One of the top reasons why men leave a relationship is because they want more space.
When you are in such a relationship, getting your ex back needs some special techniques that will get your ex back without making him feel like you are trying.
Let him “Go” doesn’t mean you really drive him away or not to see him at all. You might need to avoid seeing him for a while but it’s just for the moment. Stop seeing him or contact him for a while may give him the feeling that he has the “freedom” again.
However, this doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you at all. He may love you very much, but it’s just the commitment of a relationship make him stressed. Once you let him “go” he will feel the stress is immediately released. This may sounds easy, but it’s very important step you need to take first for getting your ex back. If the stress is still there then he is not ready to get back together.
When you let him “Go”, you should let him to do what he enjoys doing like hanging out with friends, going to sports game with his buddies. Even if he has little dating with other women you should not worry too much about it. Trust me, this is a signal effective psychological technique that I learned from Mirabelle Summers’ ”2nd Chance“. In this book the author explains why you shouldn’t worry too much if your ex boyfriend is having some dating themselves. For more detailed psychological tips about this technique, I suggest you to check out the 2nd Chance.
When Your Ex boyfriend has released the stress, you can start to get into contact again, but make sure you keep all the communication brief. Don’t ask him too much questions about how his has been doing recently or anything he doesn’t want to tell. If he wants to let you know he will and if he doesn’t then don’t ask. If men don’t want to tell you about something they have their reasons. If you keep asking him about it will only make him feel like his space is taken little by little again.
When you are getting your ex back, try to be a friend first. Think about the way you use to talk to him, having fun with him when you were friends. Wasn’t it full of joy and you could be yourself easily. What happened to you when you were in the relationship? It’s hard to feel like the same way you use to feel when you were friends. So does him.
Getting your Ex back is like starting a new relationship. But you need to make sure he doesn’t feel the stress. Once he feels in this way when you are together doing what you use to do he will more likely to get back together with you.
If these tips helped your relationship in some way don’t thank me, you should thank Mirabelle Summers. All the tips are actually from her “2nd Chance” program. I thumb up for this book and recommend people who want to improve their relationship to check out this book.
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